A 4-week relational lab for people questioning what matters to them, exploring the stories behind their values, and experimenting with how to live in closer alignment with what they stand for.
The Values Lab is a 4-week relational learning experience for people who want to better understand what they stand for and how to live in closer alignment with those values.
This course is rooted in the understanding that values are not abstract concepts floating somewhere above our lives. Values live in our relationships, our decisions, our boundaries, our habits, our reactions, and the ways we move through the world every day.
While many learning spaces focus on analyzing systems from a distance, The Values Lab invites participants to ground themselves in what is within their direct proximity: their inner world, their immediate relationships, their routines, and the environments they help shape. Inspired by the emergent strategy principle “small is all,” this course centers the understanding that meaningful change often begins locally and relationally.
Many people move through life carrying values they inherited but never examined. Others know what matters to them but struggle to live in ways that reflect it because of expectations, burnout, survival, or systems that pull them away from themselves. This course offers space to slow down and explore those tensions.
Together, participants will explore:
• What values are and how they shape our lives
• The stories and experiences that formed our values
• The gap between what we say we value and how we actually live
• How values influence relationships, work, identity, and decision-making
• What it might look like to move through life more intentionally
This is not therapy, leadership training, or productivity coaching. The Values Lab is a relational, reflection-based learning space rooted in conversation, witnessing, storytelling, and experimentation.
This course is designed for:
People who feel a sense of misalignment between their values and how they are currently living
Mid-career professionals experiencing burnout or questioning their direction
Care workers, educators, and helpers who spend time supporting others but rarely have space for their own reflection
Individuals in transition (post-grad, career shifts, life changes) who are re-evaluating what matters to them
Thoughtful, introspective people who want a structured space for deeper reflection and conversation
You do not need to have everything figured out.
Curiosity and a willingness to engage honestly are enough.
Live Sessions
Interactive classes with your instructor
Session Recordings
Lifetime access to all recordings
Community Access
Connect with fellow learners
Certificate
Proof of course completion
WEEK 1 → What Are Values? Identifying What Matters
This week centers noticing. Rather than choosing the “right” values from a list, learners will begin identifying values through stories, reactions, relationships, tension, longing, and everyday experiences.
WEEK 2 → The Lore of Your Values: Exploring Where Values Come From
This week explores the stories behind our values. Together, learners will reflect on how family, culture, religion, systems, survival, identity, and lived experiences shape what we prioritize, protect, resist, and move toward.
WEEK 3 → Alignment & Misalignment: Examining the Gap
This week explores the tension between what we say we value and how those values currently show up in our lives. Together, learners will reflect on how burnout, fear, survival, habits, relationships, systems, and expectations can create misalignment between our values and behaviors. Rather than framing misalignment as failure, we will approach it as information.
WEEK 4 → Values in Motion: Living What You Stand For
The final week focuses on integration. Learners will reflect on how values can serve as a compass for decision-making, relationships, work, creativity, and future direction. Using the IKIGAI framework as a reflective tool rather than a productivity exercise, learners will explore how meaning and alignment emerge in everyday life.
Participants will create a personal “Values Map” and complete a 90-day alignment experiment, identifying one or two ways they want to more intentionally live their values in their daily lives.
This may include shifts in decision-making, boundaries, relationships, or priorities, depending on each participant’s context.

Relational Facilitator & Educator
Angela Montijo creates reflective, conversation-based spaces where people can examine their lives with honesty and care. Her work is grounded in relational facilitation, where learning happens through storytelling, curiosity, and being witnessed. She brings a background in education justice and community-based work, offering a lens that connects personal reflection with broader systems and lived experience. Rather than offering answers, she creates space for people to make meaning of their own. Through With Care Collective, Angela designs workshops and group experiences rooted in the belief that the future is relational.
1 Course Credit
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We believe learning should be accessible. A limited number of partial scholarships are available for those who would not otherwise be able to join.
If cost is the only barrier, we invite you to apply thoughtfully below.
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June 3
15 students max
4 sessions
90 min each



